Monday, October 05, 2009

Maybe for good this time

The break-up. Which apparently Hot Med and I have done again. Short story--he's a boy. He may look like a man, but he's nowhere near grown up, and apparently after spending most of his life being coddled by his mother and not working for a living, etc., he's chafing a bit at the obligations inherent in being a responsible adult. Which include the obligations inherent in having a mature, adult relationship.

Whatever, I say. Have a nice life. I'm sure he'll be just fine without me, though he might want to watch how he treats his brother. HIS help is essential for someone living in America with no real working knowledge of written English. Might not want to piss HIM off, dude.

In an effort to speed up the "getting over him" process, I went ahead and made searchable my various online profiles. I've already been contacted by a couple of guys, one of whom says his biggest turn-on is "conversation with intelligent women." Of course, this is my life we're talking about, so I have no doubt that at some point I will discover that he has stubby fingers. Heh.

I'm also deep into rehearsals for the upcoming play and a charity gig my band is doing, so...plenty to keep my myself occupied.

Hot Who?


Stinkypaw said...

Sorry to read this. Let's hope no stubby fingers are in your dating future.

3carnations said...

Sorry, but hopefully this time had a little more closure?

Bring on the intelligent conversation. :-)

-R- said...

Stinkypaw's comment made me laugh.

Sorry about HotMed.

Sauntering Soul said...

I'm sorry Liz. Now get back out there and find someone even hotter who speaks better English!

flurrious said...

Sorry to hear this. Here's hoping you find someone you're more compatible with sometime soon, and that Hot Med doesn't. (It's okay to be a small person immediately after the breakup. We can wait until next week to wish him well.)

CarpeDM said...

Echoing Stinkypaw and Sauntering Soul's comments!

You deserve someone awesome.

georgie girl said...

better to get rid of him now than to get stuck with an "andrey" like holly had. they sound just alike.

did you know that "andrey" has never paid his own bills before?

nancypearlwannabe said...

Boo. Hot Med is dumb. You are intelligent and awesome, so clearly you win.

Stefanie said...

Dang. You wrote this on MONDAY already? Where have I been?? Sorry.

I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out (again). But I'm glad you had fun with him for a good long while longer than you thought you might. Do you remember how in the beginning, you didn't even think there was much worth pursuing there at all? The fact that you DID care about him and enjoy being with him and did get to a point where you considered it a relationship is promising news, I think. Someone else is out there for you, Liz. I do wish he'd hurry up in finding you, though, of course.